Life Update: Releasing Control, A Healthy(ish) Fudge Recipe, & Unique Wellness Tips 🌼
Sunday R.E.S.E.T. #29.
Hey, friends!
First off, thank you so much for all the sweet encouragement and comments on my Mini Home Tour and Pregnancy Diary posts— I didn’t necessarily expect for those to be as popular as they were, but I’m feeling the love, and it means the world. 💛
I won’t lie— this week was stressful. We had a preterm labor scare with the twins earlier in the week where we were admitted to the hospital. Thankfully, everything calmed down and it didn’t progress to full-blown labor.
While it all worked out, I’m still quite on edge from the whole experience...
I supposed to have weeks & weeks & weeks to go in my pregnancy so I am taking it VERY easy, resting as much as I can, and just hoping that my body is able to hold onto these twins a while longer. But I’ll be honest—it’s been a real mind game. Every little twinge or cramp sends me spiraling if early signs of labor are starting all over again…
So here I am— a chronic overthinker— trying to embrace the mindset of ‘controlling the controllables’ while surrendering the rest.
But it’s tough, isn’t it?
When I get stressed, the urge to grasp for some artificial sense of security sneaks in, and I catch myself researching, fixating, spiraling, overthinking, planning— doing anything that makes me feel like I have a “solution” and some semblance of control over a situation.
And it’s funny— because I logically KNOW that their arrival is mostly out of my hands, yet I feel the incessant need to gather more information, fixate, and try to do everything “right” in order to reach my desired outcome of keeping them safe & sound for a while longer.
And maybe you can relate? Whether it’s related to a pregnancy, your career, navigating a relationship, embarking on a big vacation, looking at your finances, planning a wedding, buying a house, contemplating a life change, etc., it’s so easy to get lost in endless loops of researching, ‘planning’, and trying to predict outcomes in hopes of steering life exactly where we want it to go.
But, deep down, we understand that many things are NOT in our control.
We know this— but it can be hard to accept this.
It’s a practice— a lesson I’ve been handed more times than I can count— reminding myself to breathe, to let go of what’s beyond me, and to find peace in doing the things that are in my control while surrendering. the. outcome.
Because, try as I might, I will never be able to fully research, fixate, or plan my way to a guaranteed ~perfect~ result. Instead, I’m learning to find quiet peace of releasing expectations, trusting MY unique path, and simply hoping for the best. One day at a time.
XX,
….Whew, I didn’t expect for that innocent intro to turn into a full-blown therapy session, but here we are (y’all should charge me a co-pay 😅). And the best part? We still have a full Sunday R.E.S.E.T. in store!✨☕️
Here’s what we are covering:
👩🏻🍳 RECOMMENDING: Not be dramatic, but you may need this random kitchen gadget.
🍫 EATING: Are you a sweet tooth? This better-for-you fudge recipe is so delicious AND blood sugar stabilizing. Win-win!
🧳 STAYCATION: While we spent our actual wedding anniversary at the hospital, my husband and I recently had a one-night staycation in our town 💛 Sharing 5 specific tips on how to make a staycation feel like a true getaway.
✨ ENJOYING: A highly-curated list of articles, quotes, & items that have caught my eye lately.
🫁 TIP: Are you dealing with vague, inconsistent health symptoms like bloating, brain fog, or digestive issues? Here is the FIRST thing I want you to do. (It’s free!)
As always, the first two segments are open to all readers, but the full post is reserved for my lovely paid community. Enjoy!
Last week, my husband and I whipped up 20+ crockpot meals to have on hand for when the babies arrive. (Is there anything better than having a well-stocked, organized, and prepped freezer? I think not.)
And let me tell you, I was reminded yet again of how much I love these RANDOM little freezer bag holder thingys— they are the simplest gadget, but make such a difference.
It simply holds your baggie upright so you can pour and mix and add to your each bag without making a huge mess, making unnecessary spills, or having confusion about which bag you’ve already added an ingredient to.
I’m not one to fill my kitchen with unnecessary gadgets, but if you make freezer meals even somewhat regularly, this one is a must. For real. It’s one of those small things that genuinely makes a big difference— highly recommend!
Thee healthy freezer fudge recipe. 👀 If you’ve been following along since the good ol’ days of my blog you might recognize this, but I just had to remind you because this recipe is elite (if I do say so myself💁🏻♀️).
Not only is it delicious, but it's also more blood sugar-friendly than your usual chocolate (thanks to those healthy fats!), lower in carbs, AND ready in under 30 minutes. Need I say more? Enjoy that fudgy goodness, my friend!
🍫 INGREDIENTS:
1 cup coconut oil, melted
¼ cup cocoa or cacao powder
2 tablespoons pure maple syrup OR 8–10 drops liquid stevia OR 8-10 drops organic monk fruit to sweeten
1/3 cup almond butter or another nut butter of your choosing
A pinch of sea salt (optional—but highly recommended. it adds such a delicious depth of flavor.)
You could also get CrAzYyYY, and sprinkle with coconut flakes, almond slices, walnuts, or any other fun topping you’d like! (optional)
🍫 INSTRUCTIONS:
Melt the coconut oil and add to a mixing bowl.
Add cocoa/cacao powder, sweetener of choice, and the nut butter. Whisk aggressively and mix very thoroughly.
Pour the mixture into a small pan that will allow you for about 3/4th-1 inch thickness of the mixture or use a silicone ice cube tray (like this!) for bite-size squares effortlessly.
Sprinkle with a pinch of course, flaky sea salt (or other optional toppings of your choosing)
Toss that bad boy into your freezer and wait only 15–20 minutes for it all to firm up. You don’t have to wait long!
Enjoy! Continue to store in the freezer & simply reach for one of these whenever you’re looking for a sweet treat that won’t have you doing the blood sugar roller coaster 20 minutes later. :)
My husband and I just celebrated 7 years of marriage! Prior to our anniversary, my mom offered to watch our toddler overnight so we could have one last bit of solo time (such a great gift!)
With the twin pregnancy, work schedules, and limited time, we opted to do a mini, one-night staycation right in our town, and it was… lovely.
Even though we were just 15 minutes from home, it felt so relaxing and recharging.
Staycations have so many perks—less travel time, lower costs, and more time to unwind without the usual logistics of a full-blown trip.
But there ARE a few key things to do so that your mini getaway doesn’t feel like “just another day” in your city. 😅 Below, I’m sharing 5 specific tips to ensure a staycation feel like a true vacation: